Fandom issues
Sep. 18th, 2009 09:24 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
x5valeEpisode 2 and I already have to vent ;)))
Do you know what pisses me off the most in this fandom?
People who claim to love both boys equally and then constantly complain about what Dean does or doesn't do. If he tries, he should have let go. If he doesn't try, he doesn't care. It's always Dean's fault. Weird, if they love both boys equally.
Since when we aren't able to watch an episode without wank or attacks? It seems a match...Sam is better, no no Dean is better.
It's so damn childish...they are not equal and can't ever be. We can't expect from Dean the qualities Sam has and we can't expect from Sam the ones Dean has. They are different. They lived different things and suffered different ways.
Ok I ranted enough and no flisters, it's not you I am talking about :)
They’re taking the first step to being non dependent on each other as opposed to the co-dependent relationship we’ve seen so far, especially from Dean.
Co-dependency is a dysfunctional relationship with the self characterized by living through or for another or attempts to fix another. Low self esteem, judging yourself without mercy as Dean does.
All of Dean’s feelings depended on something else, they depended on Sam. On keeping Sam safe so he could be with Dean.
Letting Sam go Dean has:
set himself on the road to independence and a healthier relationship with Sam.Not a co-dependent, dysfunctional relationship but a good relationship.
I've been saying they needed this fir 4 seasons...
Their relationship will be new and balanced, equal...healthy.
Do you know what pisses me off the most in this fandom?
People who claim to love both boys equally and then constantly complain about what Dean does or doesn't do. If he tries, he should have let go. If he doesn't try, he doesn't care. It's always Dean's fault. Weird, if they love both boys equally.
Since when we aren't able to watch an episode without wank or attacks? It seems a match...Sam is better, no no Dean is better.
It's so damn childish...they are not equal and can't ever be. We can't expect from Dean the qualities Sam has and we can't expect from Sam the ones Dean has. They are different. They lived different things and suffered different ways.
Ok I ranted enough and no flisters, it's not you I am talking about :)
They’re taking the first step to being non dependent on each other as opposed to the co-dependent relationship we’ve seen so far, especially from Dean.
Co-dependency is a dysfunctional relationship with the self characterized by living through or for another or attempts to fix another. Low self esteem, judging yourself without mercy as Dean does.
All of Dean’s feelings depended on something else, they depended on Sam. On keeping Sam safe so he could be with Dean.
Letting Sam go Dean has:
set himself on the road to independence and a healthier relationship with Sam.Not a co-dependent, dysfunctional relationship but a good relationship.
I've been saying they needed this fir 4 seasons...
Their relationship will be new and balanced, equal...healthy.
